I’ll be honest - dating me can feel like that moment when your phone suddenly says:
“Update required. lol And you’re like: “Ugh, not now.”

I get it. I’m not the easiest person right away. I dont have illusions about myself!

At first, I ask too many questions. I try to understand how you think, what you like, what you hate. Maybe I look demanding or too direct.
It’s like those long update notes nobody reads.

But give me a little patience and something interesting starts to happen.

I become mo...

People keep talking about “red flags” like they are something terrible. Honestly, I used to panic about mine too. I thought: “Who will like me if I overthink at night, sometimes say things I don’t mean, or get emotional for no reason?
But recently I realized something funny, maybe my red flags are not warnings. Maybe they are… decorations?)

Yes, I can be jealous sometimes, but only when I care. I ask too many questions, but that’s how I show interest.
Yes, I need attention, but I also give a lo...

If people came with labels, mine would say something like:
“May cause spontaneous laughter, overthinking on Sundays, and an urge to share snacks”

I’m not perfect, I talk too much when I’m excited, I get quiet when I’m hurt, and I need my space even when I love someone deeply. But I show up. I care. I bring small surprises, random thoughts, warm hugs, and very dramatic facial expressions.

If you want predictable, I’m not your girl.
If you want real through messy, funny, emotional, then I can be...

Christmas is a time of hope, miracles, and sincere wishes. My wish is simple: to find someone with whom we can create memories together, laugh until we cry, and support each other no matter what. May this holiday magic bring not only the light of lights, but also the warmth of true feelings I want to feel a genuine spark, when silence doesn't feel empty, and when words bring each other together and inspire. In moments like these, you realize how important it is to be with someone who not only s...