In search of someone with whom it feels warm in any season.
You know, I’ve stopped being afraid of the numbers in my passport. At some point, I realized that while youth is a wonderful time, maturity is finally the permission to be yourself. There is no longer a need to live up to others' expectations, wear uncomfortable shoes just to make an impression, or spend evenings with people with whom you simply have nothing to share—not even a comfortable silence.
My life is filled with meaning, the things I love, and cozy habits. Yet sometimes, in the evening...
Numbers in the passport and the geometry of feelings
You know, I recently found myself wondering: why are we so afraid of the numbers in our passports?
When we’re young, love feels like a sprint. You feel you have to reach certain arbitrary milestones, fall in love by the book, and live up to expectations. Back then, love is measured by the intensity of the drama, late-night calls, and a whirlwind of emotions.
But at sixty, love is no longer a sprint; it is an art of contemplation and harmony. It is a time when you don’t need to pretend to be so...
What do you think? If you’re in love—
But sometimes, it’s different. A person loves you but rarely speaks of their feelings. They don’t know how to hug, seldom give compliments, and don’t write long messages. Yet, they will show up when things are tough, remember exactly how you like your coffee, offer help without being asked, and be by your side when it truly matters.
So, what matters more—words or actions?
Or perhaps love doesn’t need to be constantly proven at all? After all, when you try too hard to show your feelings, anxiet...
August melancholy
Why do I love the changing seasons?
The calendar reveals—almost treacherously—that it is the end of August, and the air already carries that distinctive, cool scent of approaching autumn. For some, this is a time of sadness over the fading warmth, while for others, it marks the start of a cozy season filled with blankets and hot cocoa.
How do you feel about the changing seasons?
Personally, I always view it as a little refresh. Each season has its own unique "vibe":
Autumn is a time for deep ...