A Day in the Life of an Optimist from Kyiv, or Why I Need Someone Who Isn't Afraid of the Storm
Laughter through tears
Last week, a fit and dashing colleague invited our team to his birthday party; he spent a long time persuading everyone, insisting that it was a milestone birthday and he really didn't want to celebrate alone!
I thought, "Here’s a chance to unwind and relax!" I put on my best silk dress, styled my hair—and I was glowing!
A colleague and I agreed to pool our money and give it in an envelope. Since we didn't know the guy very well and weren't sure what to get him—and money ...
My special bath rithual...
If the shower is for washing away the day, then the bath is for finding myself again. My personal bath ritual is not just about getting clean; it's about coming home to myself
It starts with the preparation. I light a candle, just one, and place it on the edge of the tub. I turn off the bathroom light so the room is glowing and soft. Then I add my secret ingredients: a handful of Epsom salts to soothe my muscles, and a few drops of lavender oil to calm my mind.
As the tub fills, I lay out my t...
Shower, wine... evening vibe
There is a kind of magic that happens right after 7 PM. The day is done, the world is quiet, and it is finally my time. I call it my "shower and wine" evening vibe, and it is my secret to happiness...
It starts with the shower. I turn the water on as hot as I can stand it, and for ten minutes, I just stand there. I let the water wash away the stress of the day, the worries, the to-do lists. It feels like I am washing away the "Natalia the worker" or "Natalia the mom" and finding just "Natalia" ...
Will you be gentle?
I have a question for you today. It’s a simple one, but it feels like the most important question in the world, especially at my age.
"Will you be gentle?"
I don't just mean in the bedroom. I mean in everything!
Will you be gentle with my heart, which has been through a few storms and is a little more careful than it used to be? Will you be gentle with my insecurities, the little voices that sometimes say I'm not good enough? Will you be gentle with my past, which is a part of me but doesn't ...