How to stop wasting time on pointless messaging and find someone who truly values ​​a woman.

An inspiring story:

"For a long time, I was afraid of coming across as too blunt or 'difficult' on dating sites, so I would politely reply to anyone who simply wrote 'Hi.' I ended up spending my evenings in hollow, aimless conversations with men who hadn't even read my profile. One day, I got tired of trying to be 'easygoing' and accommodating. I decided to set boundaries right from the start and weed out anyone not ready for a real conversation. The result shocked me: the number of messages dropped tenfold, but the men who remained turned out to be truly mature, self-confident, and interesting conversationalists. It turned out that a bit of healthy provocation and honesty was the best filter against banality."