Boundaries and DESIRES

The woman with the borders is often misunderstood. I feel it on myself...
I was already called cold, hard, too independent.
As if the ability to choose automatically deprives me of warmth and sensuality.

But it’s actually the opposite.
I have always believed that boundaries are not a denial of closeness.
It is a rejection of the habit of smiling when squeezed inside.
From «I don’t care» when it really hurts or does not fit.
Probably comes with experience.
But even though I have boundaries, I can be warm and I can be close and above all - honest.

What do you think about that?