Why men want real women, not ideal ones

Ideal women are boring.
Flawless, correct, predictable, gentle, "just right"—they're pleasant, but they don't sparkle.
Real ones are different.

A real woman can have character, emotions, complexity, intensity, doubts.
She can be nervous, make mistakes, get angry, argue, and desire.
She's alive.

And men, without even realizing it, are drawn to such women.
Because an ideal woman doesn't evoke passion—she evokes respect.
But a real woman evokes passion, respect, and the desire to be better.

Next to a real woman, a woman ceases to be a statue—she becomes a spark.
She doesn't try to be comfortable.
She's simply not afraid to be herself.

And a man feels: if he can handle her, he can handle anyone.

Do you prefer an ideal woman... or one who can drive you crazy?