Why are men afraid of overly desiring women?

There's a strange paradox: men dream of a woman who desires them... but are confused when they meet one in person. They enjoy the fantasy, but the reality is tense. Not because they don't need it—on the contrary. It's simply difficult for a man to accept the idea that a woman might desire him, not his efforts, status, or role. He's used to conquering, not being preyed upon.

A woman who openly displays desire evokes in him a primitive fear of losing control. She disrupts the usual scenario: he doesn't choose—he is chosen. This triggers his inner game, where he must be stronger, more active, more decisive.
And it also triggers doubt: "Why does she want me so much? What's so special about me? Isn't this too easy?"
But the funny thing is, it's precisely these women who captivate the most. Because they don't play by the rules. They don't wait for an invitation. They tease with their calm and courage. They bring a man to life.

And yes, sometimes a man is simply terrified that such a woman could desire someone else just as easily. After all, if she's free, that means she doesn't belong to anyone