Why do men choose women who don't push themselves?

There's a type of woman men never forget. Not because they're better, kinder, or more beautiful. But because around them, a man feels space—not emptiness.
Such a woman doesn't press questions. She doesn't test him. She doesn't demand reports. She doesn't explain how "special" she is—she's just like that.
A man is drawn to her because she's not clingy. She can disappear for an evening, and a man will feel a strange desire to bring her back into his sight. Not out of fear of losing her, but out of pure, animalistic interest.
Men rarely admit it, but the strongest attachments arise not when a woman tries too hard. But when she's natural, self-sufficient, and honest in her desires.
She doesn't pretend she doesn't care. But she doesn't chase, either. She chooses—and a man feels this choice with every fiber of her being. And he himself begins to look for ways to be close to him more often, deeply, and confidently.
The only question is, can a man stand a woman who doesn't play the game of dependency?
Could you?