Why men fear losing control, but choose those who take it away

Men enjoy feeling in control. They're used to making decisions, leading, and directing.
But around certain women, this feeling crumbles.
These aren't the ones who argue, break things, or provoke just for the sake of it.
These are the ones who simply feel too deeply.
They see where a man is confident and where he's just pretending.

And then comes the thing that scares a man most:
he realizes that she can't be fooled.
Not by words, not by gestures, not by a mask of strength.

Such a woman doesn't make a scene—she draws conclusions.
She doesn't ask for attention—she looks as if she knows she won't be deceived.
And the man feels something strange:
he's losing control, but for some reason he wants to be around him even more.

The problem is that losing control for a man is almost a blow to his self-esteem.
But if a woman is smart, she doesn't push—she reflects. And a man sees himself as he's afraid to be: alive, vulnerable, real.

Many run from this.
But those who stay become stronger.

Could you stay with a woman who no longer makes you the one in control... but the one you can feel?