Why does a man love someone who doesn't belong to anyone!?

There are women around whom a man always feels a slight tension. Not because she's cold, but because she's free.
She lives as if no one has the right to own her time, emotions, body, or inner world.
She can be gentle, but not dependent.
Feminine, but not obedient.
A little wild, but not chaotic.

This drives men crazy.
Because around such a woman, a man can't relax and "take her for granted."
She doesn't belong.
Not because she's playing around, but because that's her nature.

And this simultaneously infuriates and excites a man.
He wants to catch her, hold her, be the only one with access to her inner world.
But she only stays by her side if she wants to.
She can't be held back by jealousy, rules, or accusations. She doesn't leave after a fight—she leaves when she stops feeling.

And a man understands: to be with her, he must not control her, but be worthy.
She doesn't choose the strongest—she chooses the one who isn't afraid of her freedom.

But there's a dark side:
such a woman will never completely dissolve in a man.
And he will be tormented by the question:
"Why is she still a little unavailable?"

Could you stand a woman who can't be "locked down" by attention, charms, or rules?