Wring choices and why do we make them
I think everyone made wrong choices at least once. I know I did. Sometimes I look back and ask myself, “Girl, what were you thinking?”
But the truth is simple: we make wrong choices because we are human.
We want love, attention, hope, dreams… and sometimes we trust the wrong person or the wrong situation.
Sometimes we choose someone because we feel lonely. And sometimes we just think,
“Maybe this will finally work.”
Only later we learn: not every person deserves our heart. Not every opportuni...
Why men want real women, not ideal ones
Ideal women are boring.
Flawless, correct, predictable, gentle, "just right"—they're pleasant, but they don't sparkle.
Real ones are different.
A real woman can have character, emotions, complexity, intensity, doubts.
She can be nervous, make mistakes, get angry, argue, and desire.
She's alive.
And men, without even realizing it, are drawn to such women.
Because an ideal woman doesn't evoke passion—she evokes respect.
But a real woman evokes passion, respect, and the desire to be better.
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Why does a man want someone who isn't afraid of his desire?
Some women fear masculine energy and hide behind modesty, caution, and reserve.
But there are others.
Those who look a man in the eye and don't turn away.
They sense his desire, understand his strength, but don't try to diminish themselves around him.
This interaction isn't about sex—it's about bodily honesty.
When a woman isn't embarrassed by the fact that she's an object of desire.
And yet remains the subject of choice.
A man feels alive next to such a woman.
He can be rougher, bolder, more ...
Why do men like it when a woman takes her time getting closer?
Men love speed—in everything. But there is one exception.
When a woman takes her time.
When she doesn't jump on his neck on the first day.
When she listens, observes, senses—and only then approaches.
It's maddening.
Not by refusal, but by dosage.
Not by coldness, but by attentiveness.
It's important for a man to feel that he's not passing a "test," but rather a filter.
That a woman isn't rushing things because she's playing around, but because she knows how to distinguish the present from the ...